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John courtney posted a condolence
Friday, April 27, 2018
I have always loved you, I wish I knew somehow to make time stop and go backwards and to be more than a occasional phone call. It was only the last year-and-a-half of my father's life did I get to know my dad. My mother and I never had a healthy relationship and I simply never have the skills to be what you needed me to be. For that I will always always always regret. I thought about you often and as time went on I became more and more fearful and ashamed. I was afraid I would screw you up the same way my parents screwed me up and I didn't want to do that to you. Your mom from day one had your back and I knew that you were well taken care of. I so wish I would have demanded that you came and stayed with me when we were talking about it. But instead, I thought I was doing the right thing and letting you go through what a lot of us young people have gone through in our lives with partying and drugs and learning about the people that we need to stay away from in this life. I failed you son. And I'm not sure how I can never make this up, if that's even possible. But I want you to know as you look down, if permissible, I will give the knowledge to your children that I always wanted to share with you about your father's side of the family. I miss you Derek......
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Pauline Harper posted a condolence
Sunday, January 14, 2018
Jan and family, my heart hurts at the loss of your son and the one you loved so much. There is no comparison of any loss to that of losing a child. May you find peace and comfort in your family, and know he lives on in his children. My love to all of you, Pauline Harper
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Kimberly Youngman posted a condolence
Saturday, January 13, 2018
That was beautifully written; outstanding job at conveying Derek's character. His family and friends are in my thoughts. Love you, buddy.
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Friday, January 12, 2018
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John Budinock lit a candle
Wednesday, January 10, 2018
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We are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this very difficult time.
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Vickie LaValley posted a condolence
Wednesday, January 10, 2018
Jan,
I am shocked and saddened to learn of your loss. May you find the strength and support to get through this very difficult time, and may your heart heal quickly.
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Terry and Sue Utter lit a candle
Wednesday, January 10, 2018
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Joyce, Kevin, Melissa and Joe Dziekonski lit a candle
Wednesday, January 10, 2018
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Joyce Dziekonski posted a condolence
Wednesday, January 10, 2018
I am so sorry. I will cherish the times that Dereck spent with me and my family.
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Jeff, Cindi & Thomas Shear lit a candle
Tuesday, January 9, 2018
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Hazel lopez lit a candle
Tuesday, January 9, 2018
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I didn't know Derrick but was aware of his passing through friends i have on facebook and just want to say i am sorry to hear of his passing and that I send my condolences and prayers to his family .
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Tuesday, January 9, 2018
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Tuesday, January 9, 2018
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Diana posted a condolence
Tuesday, January 9, 2018
My sincere condolences go out to the Cathy family. I pray that God gives you strength and peace through this time
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Debbie Hrytzay posted a condolence
Tuesday, January 9, 2018
There are no words .... Praying that you find strength and comfort in family and friends during this extremely different time. My heart goes out to you. Stay strong. Love, Debbie
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Ashley Pentycofe posted a condolence
Tuesday, January 9, 2018
My condolences to family and friends. May you lean on each other for support during this hard time as he would have been to you if you needed it.
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janis goranowski posted a condolence
Tuesday, January 9, 2018
My thoughts and prayers are with his children and family. I do not know Dereck but I am feeling very sad for all of his family.
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Sheila Smith posted a condolence
Tuesday, January 9, 2018
My thoughts and prayers are with you, Jan and family. May the love and memories you shared in this beautiful tribute bring you comfort today and in the difficult days ahead..
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Sharon Donald posted a condolence
Tuesday, January 9, 2018
Jan, Donna, Aunt Jean and Bill- I cannot express how sorry we were to hear this. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. Please give his children a big strong hug from us- and know that we are thinking of you always.
Love, Sharon, Mike & John
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Karen Kitchen - Purnell posted a condolence
Tuesday, January 9, 2018
You're all in our thoughts and prayers at this difficult time!
Karen Kitchen and Family
Waterloo, NY
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Katy Nelson (whitcomb) posted a condolence
Tuesday, January 9, 2018
My sincerest condolences to dereck's family and children. He was such a fun person and fiercely loyal. His bright smile will be forever missed!
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Cyndi Martinez posted a condolence
Monday, January 8, 2018
Thoughts and prayers for the entire family.
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Clint and Cathy Hance posted a condolence
Monday, January 8, 2018
We can't begin to imagine the loss you are feeling, and our thoughts and prayers are with you today and forever. Dereck was fun, kind spirited and will be missed.
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Jim & Nicki posted a condolence
Monday, January 8, 2018
Jim & I are so saddened by your loss. May his presence always be felt in your memories.
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MAC posted a condolence
Monday, January 8, 2018
My deepest condolences to all those who loved Dereck. And may you find comfort in knowing that your dear one is safe in the memory of God, who will remember every detail about Dereck and bring him back again in the resurrection. (Acts 24:15) So for now, just think of him as sleeping peacefully waiting for Jesus to wake him up.
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Monday, January 8, 2018
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